Question: Is this community ONLY for women in relationships with or married to men?

Answer: No! While our primary focus is on women in currently or previously in relationships with men, we welcome all women exploring their sexuality later in life.

Question: How does this show up on my billing statements?

Answer: We understand the importance of privacy and discretion in this situation. The charge will be listed as ‘The LLL’ on your billing statement to ensure confidentiality. We take your privacy seriously and have designed the billing to be as discreet as possible. This way, if you're ever questioned, you can easily explain it as an online support group or in another way that feels comfortable until you're ready to come out.

Question: When are the weekly calls?

Answer: Since we have members from all over the world, the timing of our weekly calls varies some each week to accommodate different schedules and time zones. This way, everyone has a chance to join at a time that works best for them, and if you're unable to attend, you can always watch the recordings!

Question: What if I identify as bi, queer, or pansexual rather than lesbian? Is this still appropriate for me?

Answer: Yes! This community is designed to support women discovering their sexuality later in life, regardless of whether they identify as lesbian, bisexual, queer, or pansexual. While many women in the community realize they're lesbian, we welcome and support all women who are exploring their sexual orientation. Our goal is to provide a safe and understanding space for anyone navigating their journey, regardless of the labels they use.

Question: Is this community for trans women?

Answer: This community has been created with cisgender women in mind, offering tailored support for their unique experiences. We deeply respect the diverse needs within the LGBTQ+ community and recognize that trans women may not feel their needs are fully met here, as this space is not specifically designed for their experiences. We recommend finding a space that provides dedicated resources for trans women to ensure they receive the most relevant support.

Question: What if I decide this isn’t the right support option for me, or if I want to cancel my membership?

Answer: All our membership plans come with a FREE trial, so you can make sure this is the right space for you before being charged. If you decide to cancel, you can easily do so from your personal community profile. This setup gives you full control and flexibility over your plan. Please note that if canceling AFTER your free trial- For YEARLY plans, there are no pro-rated refunds, but you’ll retain access for the remainder of your plan after canceling and won’t be charged again. For MONTHLY plans, you’ll finish out the current month and won’t be charged moving forward. If you need any help, we're here to assist!

Question: I'm looking to date and find my perfect partner. Is this the right space for me?

Answer: This community is designed primarily as a support space for women navigating their journey of discovering their sexuality later in life. While our focus is on providing guidance and connection through shared experiences, it is not specifically a dating platform. However, romantic connections might naturally develop due to the supportive and understanding environment. If you’re seeking a space to gain support, clarity, and guidance, this community can be a valuable resource. If your main goal is to find a dating platform, this may not be the right fit for you.